Improve code in arc_buf_remove_ref

When we remove references of arc bufs in the arc_anon state we
needn't take its header's hash_lock, so postpone it to where we
really need it to avoid unnecessary invocations of function buf_hash.

Signed-off-by: Ying Zhu <casualfisher@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #1557